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Sexual Strategies and the Mating Dance

Line 6: Role of Soul Mate – or not

The Search for Destiny-Level Partnership — and What It Actually Takes

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About Line 6 in Relationship

The 6th line is the only profile line that lives in three phases — and the quest for the Soul Mate plays out across all three. In the first phase (roughly 0–30), the 6th line experiences relationships with a trial-and-error quality similar to the 3rd line: bonds form and dissolve, patterns emerge, lessons accumulate. In the second phase (30–50), the 6th line retreats to the "roof" — observing relationships from a distance, still absorbing but no longer fully in the dance. In the third phase (50+), when the 6th line comes off the roof as the Role Model, the relational field changes fundamentally.

It is in the third phase that the Soul Mate question becomes most alive. The 6th line carries a deep, often unarticulated orientation toward a relationship that carries a sense of destiny — a partner who feels not just compatible but correct at a fundamental level. This is what Ra Uru Hu called the Soul Mate quality. The "or not" qualifier is crucial: not every relationship the 6th line engages will carry this quality, and the 6th line must learn to distinguish between what feels profound and what is actually the designed connection.

Ra Uru Hu's transmission of the 6th line's sexual strategy provides the mechanical framework for understanding this quest — across all three phases, across the oscillation between engagement and observation, and ultimately in the recognition of what Soul Mate actually means in Human Design terms.

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Ra Uru Hu (1948–2011) — Founder of the Human Design System and the International Human Design School. This program is part of his original recorded body of work, available as a self-study program through IHDS.

What This Program Covers

Based on the known mechanics of the 6th line in Human Design — as transmitted by Ra Uru Hu — this program examines:

  • The 6th line's three-phase life — and how sexual strategy shifts across each phase
  • Soul Mate as a Human Design mechanic — what it means and what it doesn't
  • The "or not" qualifier: distinguishing genuine destiny-level connection from projected idealization
  • The roof phase and its effect on relational engagement — why the 6th line withdraws from the dance
  • The Role Model in relationship — the embodied wisdom the 6th line brings to partnership in phase three
  • How the 6th line recognizes (and misses) the Soul Mate connection

Who Benefits from This Program

  • Anyone with a 6th line in their Profile (6/2, 6/3 — Role Model/Hermit or Role Model/Martyr)
  • Partners of 6th line profiles navigating the three-phase relational arc
  • Human Design students studying the 6th line's unique life trajectory and relational design
  • Anyone drawn to the concept of Soul Mate partnership from a mechanically grounded perspective

Ra Uru Hu — Founder, Human Design System

Ra Uru Hu (born Alan Robert Krakower, April 9, 1948 — March 12, 2011) was a Canadian-born author and teacher who founded the Human Design System. In January 1987, while living on the island of Ibiza, Spain, Ra Uru Hu described an eight-day mystical encounter he called "the Voice," during which the foundational framework of Human Design was transmitted to him. He spent the following decades systematizing and teaching this body of knowledge, synthesizing elements of the I Ching, Western astrology, the Kabbalistic Tree of Life, the Hindu-Brahmin chakra system, and quantum physics into a unified framework for understanding the mechanics of human consciousness and design.

Ra Uru Hu founded the International Human Design School (IHDS) in 1992 as the institutional body for maintaining the professional standards and authentic transmission of the system. Over two decades, he recorded thousands of hours of teaching programs covering every dimension of the system — from foundational mechanics to advanced specializations. The relationship and sexuality programs in this series are part of that original recorded body of work.

Sexual Strategies and the Mating Dance

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the 6th line's relationship to Soul Mate in Human Design?
In Human Design, the 6th line (the Role Model) carries an inherent orientation toward what Ra Uru Hu called Soul Mate partnership — a sense that the right relationship will have a quality of destiny and rightness that goes beyond compatibility. This quality is most accessible in the third phase of the 6th line's life (after approximately age 50). The "or not" in the program title acknowledges that the 6th line must learn to discern authentic Soul Mate connection from relationships that carry the feeling but not the substance.
How does the 6th line's three-phase life affect its sexual strategy?
Each phase carries a different relational quality. The first phase is marked by trial and error (like the 3rd line) — relationships form and dissolve, experience accumulates. The second phase involves withdrawal from the dance — the 6th line observes rather than fully engages. The third phase, when the 6th line descends as Role Model, is when the genuine search for soul-level partnership becomes most active and most possible. Ra Uru Hu's program addresses the sexual strategy across all three phases.
What is the Sexual Strategies and the Mating Dance series?
A series of self-study programs by Ra Uru Hu examining how each of the 6 profile lines approaches sexuality, attraction, courtship, and bonding. Each program covers one line's specific mating strategy from a mechanically grounded Human Design perspective.
How much does this program cost?
$35 USD, available through the IHDS affiliate link.
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